During my schools fall break I traveled with my host family to Prešov to celebrate Dušičky (All Saints Day). It was an interesting experience that was very touching to witness. The day before we purchased numerous flower arrangements and glass lanterns, intended to be left at ancestral graves. The next morning we left after breakfast to travel to many graveyards, where my host family would leave flowers and a lit lantern, say a prayer, and take some time to remember and honor the individual/s in silence. This process took up most of the day, as family was spread between many different graveyards, and as the sun set the lanterns and candles on each grave lit up the surrounding area. I felt uncomfortable at many points, in part due to graveyards giving me the creeps, but also because I am not descended from these individuals. I felt uncomfortable to be so close to such a personal moment, and I took to standing several paces away so as to be respectful.
Great experience Addy. Thanks for sharing. Being a part of others’ experiences is a rare opportunity. Your respectful attitude, both in terms of participating and in terms of giving them some space at the moment of intimacy with their lost loved ones is commendable.
We didn’t really do much with All Saints Day in the Netherlands, so I appreciate learning about the tradition.
I’m always happy to share! If you have any questions feel free to let me know,
much love.
This sounds like a wonderful and very member-able event. one that you will remember your whole life. I love that they honor their dead in such a wonderful way, and at a very special time of the year.
Thank you for this. We love you and you are always in our prayers.
Love your dear ole gramps
I agree wholeheartedly,
love ya grandpa.
I love the imagery of the candles. And I love that they light candles for people they never knew, for people long forgotten. Forgotten doesn’t mean unimportant.